They believe that because of porn choking has become part of the standardised sexual landscape. This does come with some danger. “The potential problems come when people are doing it and they don't know it well”
The way I see my expression of kink and the group sex community is by sharing, constantly sharing. There's a lot of learning with people, learning about new kinks or fetishes, or just pure psychology or human relationships or just growing.
I want to be used by other people, for them to explore theirs and for it to be an accessible opportunity for them to explore it. I think that's what gives me the biggest kick is them being able to tick off something that they've always wanted to try.
The almost obsession with sex that I have and other people's sex and what other people are up to. And being mischievous - I'm not going to say sex pest because that doesn't sound so good.
I think a lot of us hold our own internalised prejudices, there were often feelings within society that pansexual people are greedy or noncommittal, but none of that's true.