They believe that because of porn choking has become part of the standardised sexual landscape. This does come with some danger. “The potential problems come when people are doing it and they don't know it well”
I knew I was into kink from an early age. As a child putting things up my bum knowing it feels nice. And it kind of worked into bigger toys, like dildos, fists and stuff.
To me, femboy can really mean anything. If someone says they're a femboy, they can be a femboy and it can be completely different to how I look. If anything, femboys have become a bit of a trend recently.
I felt so liberated and I think what surprised me was that I was so comfortable even though I was walking around half naked in a room full of people. I felt the safest I've ever felt in a club space.