This thing about BDSM, Fetish and Sex-Positivity is that it provides us with means of communication far outside the norms, allowing us to express and connect in ways that see beyond financial or social statuses, allowing for dialogue between the full spectrum of human diversity. The beauty is that one doesn't have to turn to Duolingo. All it's all already embedded within you; just let go of those stigmas, and plenty will be possible.
Some are ready for an unadulterated orgy of debauchery, involving licking honey from the orifices of those they just met. Others, having not been to a party in 17 months, have some reservations. The elation is couched in some anxiety; the allure of group sex tempered by the worry of catching COVID.
I don't think that there's anything wrong with being a pervert, I think it's in all of us to varying degrees. Some people know how to express it and some people keep it bottled up. But I think it's amazing.