I think there's a stigma around anal sex and men are just terrified of it for some reason. Most of the time men want to perform anal sex on women, but I feel like they should try pegging at least once.
You get to communicate with somebody without language. And I think that's very important because you're accessing some kind of pre-linguistic part of somebody's mind through the physicality of you moving ropes in your hands.
Some are ready for an unadulterated orgy of debauchery, involving licking honey from the orifices of those they just met. Others, having not been to a party in 17 months, have some reservations. The elation is couched in some anxiety; the allure of group sex tempered by the worry of catching COVID.
I don't think that there's anything wrong with being a pervert, I think it's in all of us to varying degrees. Some people know how to express it and some people keep it bottled up. But I think it's amazing.